Stone or Gem? Designer or No-names?
Been hearing a lot about the marketing strategies of girls recently. You should market yourself so you’re not easily attainable – be a gem, not a stone. Be a designer brand, not a no-name brand. Makes you feel a little like a cow being branded, doesn’t it. Wake up and smell the morning coffee guys, cuz girls are NOT cows. or jeans, or jewels, or pebbles. I guess this strategy works for some people. But a relationship based on this kind of mentality seems to border on the superficial side… Isn’t there more to a person than just their availability? No matter how unavailable someone is, if they are completely lacking in substance, i don’t think that should make them a gem. And if someone has inner substance, does being genuine really turn them into a stone? I’d hope that people could see beyond that. Apparently not.
True, coming off as desperate is a no-no… but i think that’s more because *being* desperate is bad, not seeming desperate. On the other hand, having to confidence to go for what you want, i would think, is a good thing. Rather than sitting there timidly waiting for the guy to make the first move, then not picking up the damn phone. Isn’t that a little played out?
Or maybe i just don’t know how to play to game so i’m hatin’ on it instead…
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it’s just human nature to desire what we can’t have.
so to make someone truly desire u, u have to play the damn game.
those who still has that mindset really need therapy… cause women is more than a brand or glass… she is not made of fabrics or what not… it’s her glowing natural self that exhibits better qualities than a gem… a gem is just a rock made up of mostly the element 14, which is carbon… a woman has qualities/substance/things (whatever you want to refer it…) far more valuable, essential and pure than a gem…
women are all different and confusing. whatever the hell they want to be, who knows?
we are all unique in our own different ways…some people believe that games must be played in order to acheive their goals or to proof a point…egos are at times very important for some individuals…honesty is the best policy….can’t go wrong with that
“having to confidence to go for what you want…” I did exactly that by following my heart….unfortuntely….but I will still love her forever… 🙂